So stop acting like one. Just be yourself. Quit allowing people to write your story and write it yourself. You are not anyone else’s minion, you are a human being. Colbie Caillat has a song out “Try” off her album Gypsy Heart and it basically states that young women and men don’t need to try so hard to impress people. Who cares what kind of clothes you have or how your hair looks or what kind of car you drive. There’s people out there that look for what’s on the inside. If what’s on the outside isn’t everything in this world, why would you make it your top priority?